You may think everyone is passing you by, “ahead” in life. Some people get married at an earlier age, others a degree, some have kids, and etc. But you are on your own timing, God has a plan for you. You can worry about the what ifs, but where is that going to take you? You will get “there” you just need to understand that everyone learns lessons or experiences things differently. Just because you may believe you are behind doesn’t mean you are. No one is truly “there” or in control, we all have our own problems and responsibilities. Don’t rush because then you lose sight of the now with your fear of tomorrow or sadness of what once was. Accept and grow, if things are God’s will, you will be led to it when you have grown.